The Divine Nature of a Woman

In the LDS Church, we hear a lot about divine nature. 

I've always had a hard time reconciling the inherent divinity within us as children of God when we are also taught that "the natural man is an enemy to God" (Mosiah 3:19) and "because of the fall our natures have become evil continually" (Ether 3:2). 

I've also been thinking a lot about gender and what exactly is the distinctive qualities and role of a woman.

So, I've spent the last month or so studying the divine nature of womanhood and asking people about it. I talked to some of my favorite women in the world, and this is what I've learned. 

"I want you to be proud you are a woman. I want you to feel the reality of what that means, to know who you truly are. You are literally a spirit daughter of heavenly parents with a divine nature and an eternal destiny." - Jeffrey R. Holland

My Sister - Kamry

"We are literal descendants of a divine Father, and because of that we have divine potential."

"Knowing my divine nature shapes my decisions overall. It gives me a desire to improve and want to be better." 

“Of all the creations of the Almighty, there is none more beautiful, none more inspiring than a lovely daughter of God who walks in virtue with an understanding of why she should do so, who honors and respects her body as a thing sacred and divine, who cultivates her mind and constantly enlarges the horizon of her understanding, who nurtures her spirit with everlasting truth.” - Gordon B. Hinckley

My Cousin - Mattie

"Divine nature is the best qualities within us. It's what Heavenly Father sent us with so we could make it through life. It's our sacred connection to heaven."

"Being a woman is the best! I feel like Heavenly Father wants us to make sure everyone feels cared about and to give people hope."

"I don't really distinguish between mother and woman. You can mother without having your own kids."

My Sister - Sierra

"Divine nature is knowing who you are and that you're loved."

"Knowing my divine nature is really important at high school. There are so many voices telling me who to be and how to look, but it doesn't matter. I am confident because I know my divine nature."

"You can’t live your life worrying that the world is staring at you. When you let people’s opinions make you self-conscious you give away your power. … The key to feeling [confident] is to always listen to your inner self—[the real you.]" - Jeffrey R. Holland 

My Best Friend - Allie

"Divine nature is knowing that we are daughters of Heavenly Father. It's knowing we are important to Him."

"Knowing who I am has helped me see where I'm supposed to be going. It has helped me choose a spouse who will help me get where I want to be."

"I wouldn't want to be a man. I just love being a woman."

"It is precisely because the daughters of Zion are so uncommon that the adversary will not leave them alone." – Neal A. Maxwell

My Sister - Lynsey

"Divine nature is the inner-most part of you that no one can get to, but God."

"Knowing your divine nature is huge! Because I know of my divine nature, I never feel that I am unworthy of love and I don't have to apologize for who I am."

"Men and women are so complimentary, which I've seen so much since being married."

 "Motherhood is the reason I am here, it's my purpose."

"But as women, the roles of wife and mother are in the center of your souls and cry out to be satisfied. Most women naturally want to love and be loved by a good man and to respond to the God-given, deepest feelings of womanhood—those of mother and nurturer." - James E. Faust

My Mommy

"We have the potential to have all the qualities of our Heavenly Father."

"Divine nature gives you hope that you have help from somewhere. You're not just on your own."

"We don’t need women who want to be like men, sound like men, dress like men, drive like some men drive, or act like men. We do need women who rejoice in their womanhood and have a spiritual confirmation of their identity, their value, and their eternal destiny." - M. Russell Ballard

My Sister - Tessa

"Divine nature is knowing that God is with me."

"Indeed, in the restored light of the gospel of Jesus Christ, a woman, including a young woman, occupies a majesty all her own in the divine design of the Creator." - Jeffrey R. Holland

My Grandma - Joyce

"I think I was born knowing of my divine nature. I've never doubted I am a daughter of God. I believed what my mother told me and I've grown up knowing it."

"It gives me a desire to get back and live with my Heavenly Father. I don't want to stray and I want to keep the commandments."

"I love being a woman, I just do."

"We men simply cannot nurture as you nurture. Most of us don’t have the sensitivity—spiritual and otherwise—that by your eternal nature you inherently have. Your influence on families and with children, with youth, and with men is singular. You are natural-born nurturers." - M. Russell Ballard

My Sister - Shayla

"Divine nature is trying to see myself with spiritual eyes."

"When we remember our divine nature, the little things don't matter. We don't need praise for doing good, and we don't need attention from the world."

"Because it is their nature to give and please others, many women do not realize their intrinsic worth. That loss makes them vulnerable to those who would convince them that their major role is to be physically appealing." - Richard G. Scott

My Best Friend - Heidi

"We are daughters of God. We have His image in our countenance."

"Knowing does affect the way I act. I know of the Atonement. I know that God watches me and is aware of what I do, and that makes a difference.

"I'm glad I'm a woman. We get to like guys, so that's not too bad..."

My Aunt - Debbie

"Divine nature is knowing within me I have a spark of divinity. It's about the possibilities."

"There are a bazillion ways to make that spark useful for you and for those around you." 

"The older I get, the more I see that being a mother is the greatest thing you could do or be. I feel adored by my children."

My thoughts...

It has always been easy for me to see divinity within others. Understanding my divine nature has taken more effort, but God has blessed me with occasional glimpses of how He sees me, and that view has changed everything.

"One of the sweetest messages the Spirit will relay is how the Lord feels about you. And that reassurance will strengthen you in a way that almost nothing else can." - M. Russell Ballard

Humans are fallen, but we're not worthless, evil creatures. I think in my mind I have been overly degrading human nature.

I now understand that our divinity and worth as women, and as human beings, is simply because of our capacity to become like God. 

As we seek to understand who we really are, our actions and our lives become an extension of divinity. We overcome the human temptations and deceptions of mortality. We become like God.

I believe that is the essence of true beauty - living with the knowledge of who you are, living as a goddess. I think the women listed above are the most beautiful people in the world for that reason.

I love being a woman. I still don't understand the inherent differences between men and women, but I know that there exists within me a distinct femininity and spiritual sensitivity. I know that God wants me to be nurturing, compassionate, and pure. I have inherent tendencies and desires. I was born to be a mother, and I'm not ashamed or afraid of that role (anymore). 

I know that I am a daughter of God. 

I know that God loves His daughters and has a particular role for them in His plan.

We are of worth.

We are divine.

And we are freaking awesome.

Amen.